We know and you guys know we women are complicated…



Funny Men…

The Mr. Men Show

The Mr. Men Show (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Hi, I’ve decided to show what I find hilarious about men, I’m not saying that all men are like that or do it, its don’t my way of laughing at them in any way, just that is my way of showing what I feel men do that make me LOL…(So you’ve been warned, this is not I way to talk or address men in any negative way, its just pure fun!)

Hope you guys like it and enjoy!

P.S.: If you have any other topic you would like fro me to show on a video and laugh about it, put the topics on the comment section (this is for all the men that would like to see funny lady issues buahahahaha)

Let me be your friend…


facebook (Photo credit: sitmonkeysupreme)

This topic is about mainly Facebook…I’ve notice when it comes to accepting someones “Friend Request” somehow it get a little dramatic or creepy…Now, I know this from experience, it has happen to me before and depending of what you do it may differ en some ways…

The normal way is that you search for a friend, relative or someone, you send a request and they see it and accept you back, Bingo, no big deal. Now, the tricky part is the time you take to search for that certain someone or the time that certain someone accept you back (yeah yeah and the drama builds up full speed). Some normal person would think, maybe she’s/he’s not online Facebook recently, maybe she’s/he’s sick, maybe someone hack her/his Facebook account and can’t go in…there are so many things that can happen or he/she just forgot it, anyhow…Some always think that he/she don’t wanna be my friend boohooo (come on!, well…that can happen too) But why in the world get all serious about it, when in general you know for a fact that people are not on Facebook 24/7 (Or are they?…)

My second point is when it come to being friends with the opposite sex…if you guys are friends it’s cool, if you guys have mutual friends in common is good, but if you don’t know each other, or the girl/guy is into you or he/she is stalking you…I understand that if you really haven’t seen the person, or know for a fact that he’s probably an Alien from God know where, then is very suspicious, but if you have a friend that knows he/she is not a weirdo, then why be all jerk about it, at least say hi, you never know it could be the love of your life or a very dear friend and your just being a pussy about it.

The third issue is family, good when you put family in the combo you better watch what you write or just don’t give a pice of your mind…

P.S.: Embrace your friend status, be sociable, be open but safe! Peace out!

Friends & Drama

Jealous Girls

Jealous Girls (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Hi, I wanted to do something different so I made a Vlog to post and that way you can have a better way to hear my story and start to know me better…Enjoy!

Please comment and follow! Peace Out!!!

With or without…


There is something that’s been happening frequently and modesty aside I’m getting quite popular with the male gender…Ok ok, don’t get me wrong is not like I’m being hooking up with random guys, is just that they are flirtatious, want me to be their girlfriend and also want to MARRY ME! What the hell and ok I have to admit that I like the compliments and enjoy the attention…BUT, yeap there is always a BUT! I HAVE A BOYFRIEND already and I’m very much happy with him (flowers, butterflies, hearts floating) What is the problem with the whole MEN want me NOW, it’s not because of my boyfriend being jealous or anything (he takes this situation very smooth), it’s not that I’m bothered about it, so Why?

Let’s start taking baby steps on the matter…Yesterday made 5 months being with my boyfriend (Aww so cute) but before that’s being WITHOUT a boyfriend wasn’t so cool AT ALL…and as any other women being alone when begin to wonder why and think:

1. Do I have so strange disease that makes men go away?

2. I’m a radioactive? (Cool I’m a Hero)

3. I’m I really ugly? (Mom the you were lying all this time…shame on you!)

4. Probably I’m not a boys type (Oh oh so then I’m a girls type…)

5. WHAT’S WRONG WITH? (Me crying)

The basic thing is that no GUY would even look at me before in a romantic kind of way, it’s not that I wasn’t good looking, or smart enough, or any other thing I could think about…And then it hit me, maybe, just maybe I wasn’t in a relationship, I was without a boyfriend, I realize now that now that I’m with somebody that maybe I look more interesting, ALELUYA, yeah I know what you guys are thinking “it’s so not TRUE Valz, that’s just in your head bla bla bla”, ok it’s not because of that’s, but the bottom line is that WHERE?, WHERE were all those guys that NOW are hitting on ME 5 months ago and BEFORE? WHY NOW GOD? It came to me that although this equation does not have scientific proof , it is meaningful to me right now:



P.S.: When someone picks you out of all the people in world that means your special to that person, so there are a lot a reasons I picked my boyfriend out of all of the men… The simply pic above I made it btw LOL, PEACE OUT!


Word Is Love

Word Is Love (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I’ve been told that “love” comes when you don’t even expect it…Yeah  I know what your thinking: “OMG this chick is gonna get all melodrama now…” Not!…ok just a little…I will start by saying that the word “love” was never my favorite and why you might ask? because I always ended up with (%·%$&) You see what I did…I made you think that I was cursing right there…did I? you will never know…OK, moving on…I admit that all my failed relationships were part my fault too…but then again I had bad boyfriends, so now that my world has come to a turning point in my whole love/romance/loveydovey scenario I have embrace the word “love” in a freakin other level (yes, I’m excited), coz not only I’m accepting that true love does exist (thought it was a fairytale mith) I’m in the process of falling in LOVE, yes guys I’ve fallen!

It’s started with a kiss…yeah that’s not really true…it started we: I know you, you have a friend, your friend see’s me, I see you friend and whatever, then I invited you with you friend to my house,  I get to know your friend better, we go out, we make out and…Nothing happen it was our first date, damn guys chill, GOD!, so…it’s was something like that, then we got to know each other more…NO! not like that, OMG! hahaha just kiddin and know we are going on a date soon so I will see how it goes…(We are going to the movies!)

The good thing about falling in love is that the moments you share with that special someone is great even if your doing nothing, just being with that person, talking, laughing, enjoying life together makes anything you do worth it and so if you want to know more about my Awesome date…you will never know it’s private, shame on you!

P.S.: Love is sometimes unexpected, so don’t try to understand it, just embrace it and be happy!!! Peace out!!!

Thanks for telling me…

Chick Flick

Image by C.M. via Flickr

This story goes back when I was beginning college. I had seen one of my ex boyfriends (not telling who is), we were having something-something (no biggie) and I guess it was nice to felt good being together and back as it was back in the day (it sounded so old school). Suddenly I got all confused and felt that we could actually have something serious, so I started to question myself If I was having deeper feelings for him or it was just a liking the moment stuff, so as soon as I accepted the fact that it was “LOVE” I made my plot and with courage I planned to meet him and tell him what I  felt…yes I know that it almost kind of a chick flick scenario but it’s really different (I promise)…Where was I?…  Yeah right the meeting day!… I was so nervous and not just because I would soon declare my love to a guy, but it was also my first time doing such a thing and before you knew it I was side by side with the dude

There I was talking stupid things before my death (ok not my death, rather my love

confession), seconds and minutes were passing and when I got confident, I striked my loving phrase…”Hey…(the dudes name) you know that I have had i great time with you and I started to realize something…(I really think I said something like that, if not, I’m sorry I don’t have photographic memory)…That…I…LOVE YOU!!!…

After that I was like holy *%$&, Now what is he going to say, I thought  he was going to say:

A. I feel the same!

B: Lets just stay friends…

C. I honestly don’t feel the same sorry.

Instead of that I got a big…….”THANKS FOR TELLING ME”…at that moment I froze because he didn’t say no, maybe their is a hope after all, but he changed the subject like nothing had happen and he was cool with the idea of me loving him, It appeared to be no big deal for him…(I thought so but I was wrong…).

Days passes and i was starting to freak out, because now that I was thinking straight, he really didn’t say nothing conclusive…THANKS FOR TELLING ME? WHAT IS THAT? WHAT DOES THAT MEAN? IS IT A YES OR A NO?, my cousin thought that i was getting mental for that insignificant frase…

So I had to take a stand and demand my right for a explanation…and “THE DAY” came, I got directly to the subject and nailded the question.

Me: You (dude’s name) remenber that I told you (the 3 word frase)?

Dude: What? When?

Me: Do you have amnesia?

Dude: I dont remember…(your first confession and he forgot)

Me: You said thanks for telling me…what does that mean?

Dude: Did I told you that? I really don’t know, is shocking because I know you and you telling me such big thing is one in a life time and honestly I would have been shocked and without a answer…

Me: Great still with no answer…

P.S. Guys out there please I beg of you don’t ever say THANKS FOR TELLING ME or any other inconclusive phrase to a girl, its like you guys talk manglish (man language) or something, at least stick to the yes I do or no I don’t, Peace Out.